Medical Emergency / Suicidal Intention
If you are having a medical emergency or are concerned you will harm or kill yourself call 911. On campus you can also call 581-4040. The UMaine Police will direct you to the appropriate resources.
You may also go directly to Eastern Maine Medical Center Emergency Room at Eastern Maine Medical Center (489 State St., Bangor) or the Emergency Room at St. Joseph’s Hospital (360 Broadway, Bangor).
If you are in emotional distress call the Counseling Center (581-1392) or come to our office at 125 Cutler Health Center (across from Gannett Hall)
You may call 581-4040 (UMaine Police) and UMaine Police will identify appropriate resources in consultation with the Counseling Center as appropriate. You may also call 1-888-568-1112 (Northeast Crisis System Phone Help / Crisis Response Line).
If you are not in immediate danger and want to attempt to lower your level of distress try some of the techniques below or check out our stress reduction MP3s. If these don’t help, call during our daytime hours (8-5) and set up and appointment at the Counseling Center. If your distress is high, please tell that to the receptionist so we can schedule appointments as soon as possible. In some cases this can be the same day.
- Grounding – Sit comfortably and upright on a chair or sofa with you feet firmly on the floor. Gently press your feet into the floor noticing your legs tighten a little and then relax. Let your shoulders relax. Pay attention to how the ground and chair are supporting you.
- Centering – Ground as described above. Very gently rock your hips until you feel your weight is even settled. Imagine there is a string attached from your tail bone through the top of your head and let your body relax and rise up along that string (don’t “sit up” as if at attention). Let your shoulders drop and breathe naturally.
- Breathing – Imagine you have a straw in your mouth and make a small opening to breathe through. Breathe slowly through your mouth and imagine the air is being drawn down to your belly button. Slowly breathe out. Repeat at least 6 times. As this becomes easier, pay attention only to your breathing.
- Planning – Write down what actions you can take to address the problem. Identify which are feasible and when you can do them. Decide when you will do these. Often just having a plan helps lowers distress.
- Distracting – Make a list of 3-10 things you can do to take your mind off what is upsetting you. Do at least one of these. Drinking and drug use should not be on this list.
- Reach Out – Call a friend or family member just to talk.